Ok people.This negativity and sadness is still sticking here with some of us,especially some WS's so I just want to put this out there.

I can understand the hurt feelings and the fear of reprisal,the lack of support and the desire to flee to some other place that may be more safe in the eyes a few of our posters.

But I challenge you to make a difference HERE.Don't pick up your bat and ball and go home.How about making this the place we ALL need?

I have been here a year and I can recall several times when a WS first arrived and was not welcomed in the most appropriate way,although I will be right in line to do so if they are seeking help in ending the A and working on their marriage.

But many of us worked hard to talk to these people and help them understand the principles here and to lend an ear and support.I think the good outweighs the bad by a long shot.Unfortunately,like marriage what is harped on is the issues that need work and instead of working on them,people pack up and leave or find the answer elsewhere.Isn't this the same?

I agree that any physical harm to another is not appropriate and is not helpful,at any time, unless someones life is at stake.We all need to remember that helping each other is what is important on a site like this.Wouldn't Steve be a bit suprised to see so many of us in such discord? Would he be proud of the way we are handling ourselves?

Please.Let's all be kinder to each other,remember our MB principles and agreements.Remember that anyone new deserves a heartfelt welcome and a supportive first post,not a rehash of personal ongoing issues.

We need to regroup and support each other more.We are all having a difficult time here but personal integrity and understanding goes a long way.

Blessings to ALL.

O

Ogirl, you go girl. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

October -

Well I for one can't resist a challenge, and silly addicted to MB girl that I am just had to come back a read some more.

So you are on, but for me I need some time away from the board, just doing my porch project and girl things. I am way too emotional and said some hurtfull things on my last post which will haunt me for a long time, but I won't delete it. Too stuborn.

I have one more thread to post before I take my leave of absense.

Thank you O, you are such a good person.

{{{weaver}}},

Yes,do take a break hon.You sound like you need it.Did you take a hot shower or have some hot chocolate like I recommended before? Please stay with us,your posts are very valuable here.

It has been rough on here for some reason but I have no doubt in the fine folks here that we can get back to the supportive and intelligent board we all need.One day and one person at a time.Come back in a couple days with a fresh perspective,OK? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Sleep Well.

O

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