I just got back from visiting my son who lives in Florida. Monday morning as I was preparing to leave the phone rang, my son was on his way to work, it was my wife. She didn't answer for a minute, I guess she was surprised that I was there. She asked me if I had spoken to youngest son who is in college, I said yes several times. She said I haven't been able to get him. I told her that he was fine. There was a long pause and she asked how I got there and I told her that I flew. Then she asked when I was going home, I said today. Another long pause, then I said I got to go, see ya.
Maybe she sees that i am living life again and not waiting on her to come back. She apparently has left our town and is going to where ever she is going. She says to Atlanta, OM does not live in Atlanta. But who knows where she will end up.
I am amazed that I am doing as well as I am but I still have strong feelings for her. I want to protect her but that is not something she will allow right now besides I don't need to protect her from her choices. She needs a dose of reality.
I also discovered that apparently OM has sent her more money. Good for him that I won't be paying for her mistakes.

Good to hear you that you are going strong.
I am making a point to answer all the post with O replies because I feel bad for people who don't get a response as one of my posts have not had a response.

New to the discussions here but it is great to see that at least at some point we can be strong again.
Trying not to drown takes all your energy but when you get your head above the water line it must feel great. Keep it going