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<small>[ December 08, 2004, 11:21 AM: Message edited by: toolate? ]</small>
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If you have kept quiet about all this evidence then you definitely have more self control than I.
That will serve you well as your H's A comes to light.
Trust your gut. It sure seems like it is correct.
If and when you let him know you know he is in an A he will just deny it. He will try to make it seem like you are out of your mind. If you can afford a PI, hire one to get the inrefutable evidence.
You will want to formulate a plan. I assume you are here because you want to save your marriage. Read all about plan A and all the concepts if you haven't already.
Have you thought about exposing this A to anyone?
Purchase and read 'Surviving an Affair' (SAA)available on this site.
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Thanks Trix- I haven't yet bought the book (I'm not sure when I can get the chance to read it- I think he'd be upset if he saw the book around the house and work seems inappropriate). I have to buy that book- I know I still love my H (affair or not) and I want our marriage to last. Thanks for the shoulder:)
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