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D Day was July 10, 2004. We have talked about the A very little, he said that it started as just friendship. The concern for me is that if he was with her for someone to talk to and we still aren't really talking alot, I believe that it will happen again. How long should it be before he is able to open up? I can't push it all away until this is done and have expressed this feeling to H.
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Jen,
If he isn't ready to talk about the affair that is o.k. There are still a lot of other things to talk about.
There is nothing wrong with you asking questions. Ask away. If he doesn't want to answer move to a lighter topic. Keep trying to discover what were the major causes for this mess.
I'm a FWS and I never want to talk about that stuff. I do though when my wife needs to. I don't like to go to the dentist either. . . but I do go.
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Hey Comfortably Numb, since you are a FWS, would you mind reading the last couple of pages of "Sex and emotions after an A" and maybe offer some insight to my posts there?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Jennie G:
<strong> Hey Comfortably Numb, since you are a FWS, would you mind reading the last couple of pages of "Sex and emotions after an A" and maybe offer some insight to my posts there? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm on my way.
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