I'm currently doing a lot of soul searching and I'm sure that some of you have already found some good references.

Care to point me in the right direction if you do?

I have them on my computer at work. I will do my best to post them to you tomorrow. I hope I remember <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks K. I really appreciate it.

Gen 30:3 Job 24:15 Proverbs 2:16,18,19 Proverbs 5:3-22 Proverbs 6:24-33
Proverbs 7:5-23 Proverbs 9:13-18
Proverbs 22:14 Proverbs 23:27-28
Proverbs 29:3 Proverbs 30:18-20
Ezek 18:5 Hos 4:1-2-11 Matt 5:28,32
Matt 19:9 Mark 10:19 1 Cor 6:15-18
Gal 5:19 2 Peter 2:9-14
Exodus 20:14 Lev 18:20 1 Cor 5:11
1Cor 5:15 John 8:10 Heb 13:4 Eph 5:15
Gal 5:19

These are but a few...remember this that Jesus forgave the adulterous woman who was about to be stoned. He said that the one without sin should cast the first stone. While adultery is a horrible sin, as all of us are sinners, God patiently waits for us to come to Him in repentance. Jesus died for all of our sins-from the gossip to the adulterer to the murderer. While we see degrees, to Him sin is sin and it breaks His heart. I'm assuming (and you know what happens then) that you're involved in adultery or contemplating such, please know that it's a black hole that will eat at your soul. It will only destroy. Head God's Word and get out now. You won't regret it.

sure wish that would have popped to the top earlier when I was at work.
Sorry Miker!!

Miker - I understand the pain and the soul searching you are going through...it's a tough thing to go through while trying to balance the children and their "handling" of things.

Asking for Bible references is the very easy part, so I'm not going to go there yet. I would first like to know what you might be looking for in wanting those references.

I read through your previous posts and really didn't see much (if any) mention of God, so I'm curious as to what your motivation is for wanting biblical references.

The one comment I'd like to make right now is that I am confused about your sitation as it is right now. I read that you seemed to be pretty set on a divorce and not trying to end the affair and rebuild your marriage. Then I read perhaps some wavering. I know that prior to my wife's affair I was of the opinion (as was she) that if "you cheat on me I'm outta here!" Reality has a way of smashing you in the face and making you think instead of just react. So are you contemplating trying to save your marriage now?

God bless.

One of the main themes of the prophets is an analogy of God as a BS, lamenting his beloved WW.

He knows what we are going through, and he knows what to do. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


Shul