WH (serial cheat) just left work noon to met OW..It's her birthday so I guess he's gonna give her - her BD F***...More than I ever got...

He's so patterned...I could tell this am the way he took special care in getting ready for work - then leaving his wedding ring in the drawer..This is a new trick of his...I guess he's telling her it's really over with me this time - see I'm not wearing my ring anymore..I should have called the PI - to follow him - but, what does it matter I'm pretty sure it's the same one he's been seeing for a year - though, since there are soooo many I can't keep track of who he's SCR#$(*G on what day...

I hope he realizes that not wearing his ring doesn't mean a thing - when the check is on the counter that's when he's not married anymore....he won't give up his women or his money..what a worm he is. His marriage to me was over the first time he dropped his drawers not the 100th time...He just doesnt' see that I'm only here for the money now....

I like it when I'm right on target w/his activity..if only her BS was as smart as I am..


Maybe when he gets home tonight I should just ask him "So how was the F*&^ today....oh, baby, baby..your the greatest....Yeah right..

I can't believe how low he must be in self-confidence, self-esteem, to keep up this game - that gives him a high one day and a low the next..

Sorry - Just venting...because he makes me sick...how he plays the game..and these women are stupid - he sure knows how to tell them what they want to hear..I could just scream..

I do think these lonely, losers deserve each other..They survive on their lies - it's easier to find comfort in someone that shares their same marital problems rather than fix what's broken at home....I say go....take your clothes, cars, etc. and go...please...just leave the checkbook..

Sorry you're having such a bad day. I know how those feel. My H fell for the old, "You're very handsome... You're very smart...You're a good kisser..." balony lines. Funny how the following statements didn't scream wh*re to him, "I don't care if you're married. I'd never ask you to leave your wife. It is what it is, for as long as it is, and nothing more. I'm not a commitment person, just a sexual person. I have sexual needs that must be fulfilled. I'm seeing other men. No one will ever know. I'll never tell anyone. Your W never has to know. I'll even pay for the hotel room if that's a concern for you."

I said to my H, if I jumped in bed with every man that said, "You're sexy; you're beautiful; I love your eyes; blah, blah, blah" when I was single I'd have hardly had time to leave the bedroom. I mean, don't you know a line of bullsh*t when it is being blown up your a$$??

Men are so easy!!!!!

-SNS

Oh sister still- you are sooo right...though, it's a 2 way street - women can be pretty dumb too...I really don't think it has to do with gender - I think it's more who is strong - who is weak..If women were smarter my WH wouldn't have so many to choose from..hahah

I've heard the lines too - I just had a 34 year old (I'm 47) shower me w/compliments. I took it as that and thanked him...I didn't ask him to get us a room or to call me. Funny, I think there are alot of married people out there that don't know how to take a compliment - or in a time of marital stress say NO - I'll go home and fix this..

I just told this to some friends - God forbid the married guy that tries to hit on me - telling me how horrible his life/wife is....I'll look him straight in the eye and say; GO HOME AND FIX IT..You don't want to be where I am right now - it's not a fun place....

I did have a single guy want a sexual relationship - heck, at least he was honest about it..I said NO...I still love my WH...some of us are strong some weak..I was weak once many years ago and have definately learned my lesson...