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#1227289 11/11/04 11:26 AM
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My situation married 11years 3rd affair asked husband to move out in sept.OW married says working on marriage I know husband and other woman still talking because husband called TUESDAy about a conversation he would'nt have know about unless OW called him wandering If I should let her husband know?Scared it will hurt any chances with my husband even though he says he doesn't love me like a husband should love a wife blah blah He hasn't filed for a divorce says he will if and when he wants one ,didn't move anything out of our house but clothes his mail comes to our house instead of his apt.Please someone give advice despreatly lve this man!!!

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You are hurting your chances by NOT TELLING her husband. You are HELPING them have their affair by helping them hide it. The affair can't survive for long without secrecy. Helping them hide it doesn't help you one whit, but hurts you.

I would call her H TODAY and tell him. And when you are done, call up your close family members on both sides and your close friends and tell them also.

Have you read the material on this website about Plan A? That would be a good start for you in addition to ordering the book Surviving an Affair from this website.

Here is a good article to start you off:

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html

<small>[ November 11, 2004, 10:50 AM: Message edited by: MelodyLane ]</small>


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