Hello Everyone! I only posted a few times on here,but im asking for some imput. About 4 months ago i found that my husband was having an affair and has a 1 yr old.

Recently my husband was hospitalized, and while he was in the hospital i answered his cell phone,and guess who it was the other woman, I was very polite on the phone she told me who she was and then asked who i was and i told her, she then said what am i doing answer his phone and then hung up before i could answer.

I told my husband that i answered his phone and he got very angry and we havent spoken since this happened which is about 4 days ago.

Im in limbo and very confused, he says one thing and then does another.

If i dont say anything about the affair its all peachy but as soon as the subject comes up its an all at war!

I would appreciate any advice or suggestions.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by mishele:
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I told my husband that i answered his phone and he got very angry and we havent spoken since this happened which is about 4 days ago.

Im in limbo and very confused, he says one thing and then does another.

If i dont say anything about the affair its all peachy but as soon as the subject comes up its an all at war!

I would appreciate any advice or suggestions. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Read over this post again. The affair is not over. Was there ever any NC letter? What are the other dynamics of the situation? YOu are in the right place to find out what do to if you want to try and save your marriage. (MELODYLANE...you are on a roll here, this calls for one of your posts and I am serious here).