I'm very new to all of this and on top of fighting for my marriage and trying to put together a great Plan A , I'm just returning to work and am not sleeping or eating and having terrible dreams of my WW and The OM...

I just can't afford any of these books that some of you have suggested and it kills me to know the saving of my marriage is only a few books away. If anyone has old copies or feels like helping me out with a book to borrow I would forever be greatful.

Drop me an a message and I will post any info you need.

I wish I could afford these books but right now my Mortgage and the basics are eating up my paychecks faster then I can bring them in, I'm at least three months in debt so that means four months away from being able to buy even the cheapest of books. Please if anyone can help me out with a good book to help me on my way to a better marriage and a way to get over this I would forever be in your debt.

Michael~~

<small>[ November 19, 2004, 08:15 PM: Message edited by: Mschluter ]</small>

You should be able to find Surviving an Affair or NOT "Just Friends" at the library. If tha's a problem, I have SAA and will send you my copy if you'd like.

GC

Greycloud,

Your a saint. You can send it to

Michael Schluter
Send me a message for mailing info

Yahoo Id is : Mschluter2002

Michael~~
D-Day 07-08-04

<small>[ November 16, 2004, 12:29 PM: Message edited by: Mschluter ]</small>

Michael - I just looked on my bookshelf and realized that I've loaned out both Surviving an Affair and After the Affair. NOT "Just Friends" is a great book, though it is quite long. It's not as easy a read as the other two, but if you promise to send it back, I'll lend it to you.

The others - I'm waiting to hear from the person borrowing them.

GC

You have my word as a BS......Just inlude your address and I will send them back as soon as I finish them, Catch me on Yahoo and I will give you my cell number as well after 7:00 est I have free Long distance..And again thankl you.

Michael~~

You've got it Michael. I'll hit the Post Office with it tomorrow. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

GC

I have about 12 linear feet of infidelity and marriage books. I’d loan some to you but I still use one or more of them almost every week.

I do have an extra copy of SAA. I can send it to you. When done with it, you can send it on to they next person who needs it.

I will try to get it in the mail to you in the next couple of days.

Also, Amazon.com has cheap used copies of all the good ones. I bought some there for as little as $4:50. And they were all in excellent condition.

Books to get at the library or a used bookstore:

SAA,
HNHN
Torn Asunder
Forgive For Good
Not Just Friends
After The Affair
Passionate Marriage
The Exceptional Seven Percent: The Nine Secrets of The Worlds Happiest Couples

Also, sign up for a Retrouvaille Weekend. It is on an ability to pay basis (i.e. donation). I highly recommend it.

T

Retrouvaille Weekend?

Not sure what that is and how do I go about signing up for it. My finacial situation is very bad right now but I have faith it will improve by Febuary. I thank all of you that have been so kind as to send me books on the basis of trust. This is the best group of people that I have met and all of you have been great in your advice. God Bless all of you.

Michael~~

Mschluter:

Dude,

They have your info.

Please edit your post and take that very personal information down.
Just some friendly advice ....as NOT everyone that comes here is after YOUR best interests.

take care

Where do I get and print POJ for me and ww to sit down and go over?

Michael~~

Try this site first:

http://www.retrouvaille.org/

T

Thos,

Are you still sending me that copy of SAA that you have. I can't seem to find that book at any of my local library's and all of you seem to so highly recommend it.

If anyone has an extra copy of SAA and would be willing to lend it to a very needing BS, I would forever be greatful.

I posted in your other thread (Tale of Hope). I sent it yesterday.

Good luck.

T

Thos,

I have not recieved SAA yet?

Michael Schluter
133 Simpson rd
rochester, ny 14617

Thos,

Not sure if you got this...

I took it to teh post office late Thursday afternoon. I sent it book rate, maybe that takes longer. I think it should get there today or tomorrow.

I used the address you originally posted.

T

Thos,

I got the SAA book today, Thank you so much. I have started reading it and things are actuially starting to make sense and come together..