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#1229391 11/17/04 01:33 AM
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Does anyone here know how I can find out who my ww calls while i'm not home, I think she is making calls from our home phone..Is there some trick or trade that will allow me to see who she is calling or even record these calls?

Michael~~

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Where do you live ? in the US ?. Most BabyBell have online access to your account, you could enable it and see all the outgoing calls.

What do you want to do with this info. ?. Have A been exposed yet ?. Have you done plan A to end the A ?.

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Yes I have started a somewhat good plan A.. I just want to reveal the secrecy that she may be still calling OM..If I can prove she is calling him it helps with my Plan A.......

Michael~~

#1229394 11/16/04 02:21 PM
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Michael,
I found out that my WH was still in phone contact by calling the phone company and asking for itemized lists of all the calls made from my home phone. I now have that feature on my bill every month. It costs $3, but is well worth it for my piece of mind. You can also purchase a voice activated tape recorder. It plugs into your phone jack and records all conversations that take place on your home phone. I think you can get one for around $50 - check for it online.

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check your local radioshack I think there is a device you can plug into an unused phone jack within your house and it will record all calls made.

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check your local radioshack I think there is a device you can plug into an unused phone jack within your house and it will record all calls made.

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Not that any of us have tried this (cause it's illegal in many states) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> BUT....

Radio Shack sells a telephone recorder that will tape any and all calls made to or called from your home phone.

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does it show the number called?

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#1229399 11/16/04 03:39 PM
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Have you hit redial? That is how I found out that my H was contacting her from home.

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after ever call she punches in our phone number....She is very sneaky..

Michael~~BS

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here is something sneakier - I found a cordless for the house that holds the last five #'s dialed. You just hit redial over and over to view them. I threw out the old cordless, replaced it with new and made sure there were no other phones to use in the house.

Have never seen her # or any unknown # there.


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