I'm just wondering, when I first met my H, he rarely wanted SF except for the first few weeks after we started having it. We only did it about 3 times a week after we moved in together. The OW says that he would visit her 2 or 3 times a day when he was off work for a day, and often stopped by before work. I am having a hard time dealing with the feeling that I don't think he has ever wanted SF from me that much. It was pretty frequent the first few weeks after I found out about the A, but is back to once or twice a week now, and as far as I know there is NC. Please help!