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#1230240 11/17/04 10:55 PM
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My other post below
currently husband seems to be nicer and one of his problems with me is that Ive been at home since the baby was borne and money has been very tight. I have the chance maybe to get a job but lawyer said not to, it will hurt my chances for allimony and larger child support. since he has not said that he wants to work on the marriage
I'm confused as to what to do at this time.
I live in florida no fault state. Scared to do
anything. What are your thoughts please


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Have you tried discussing this with your family? Even if you do get a job presently- what are you going to do with your child? Daycare, well there goes your paycheck anyway- well a good chunk of it al least depending at how much daycare is in your area and the job that you get. I guess if your lawyer says do not get a job then do not. Are you thinking that if you get a job that you WH will see you trying and come back? It is always possible- but a job getting that done, not likely.

I wish I had advice for you... Only thoughts and prayers and a {{{{{{{hugco4}}}}}}}}}}}}

My thoughts are with you.

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thanks for your reply
LCF Husband is still paying bills and if we do get
a D then this will be the last of constant quality
time I have with my little one, I guess I should just cherrish this time until I see a difference in him.
thanks again


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