I'm asking that everyone here who prays, will remember me in their prayers.

This evening, I found some credit card bills of WH's. All the places he took OW and went with her..... my hurt goes very deep.

I got down on my knees, and asked God to please forgive me of my wrong doing in this mess, and to please give me guidance.

Also asked Him to let WH see clearly his life, and his path. And to let him speak with a heart of truth.

I have turned my marriage over to God.

Please pray that He will have His will in this. I can no longer do this on my own.

Thank you......K

K, you've got my prayers. Sometimes all we can do is turn our Ms over to God. There is a peace in letting go. HUGS! CV

K, thank you for you kind words on my thread. While I have little faith, the fact that you want to do what you can to help makes me feel very good, and I appreciate it.

Trust in what you believe, for you define your life. If you know that your god will help you, than help is coming faster than you know.

I have an idea, lets focus on what we can do, not what others have done. I believe that we have been good, honest, honorable spouses. No one can take that from us. We can rise above the quagmire that our WS have created and swim to shore. We get to wallow in the fact that we are trying to be good, and succeding (well, I may be on the edge sometimes, but ...) We get to know that our path is the harder one, and we choose to walk the hard path because it is the right ting to do.

Hmmm, I may be stuttering while typing. That is a firt for me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

K, I wish you the best and I hope you get it all.

Gotcha. You and your H are in my prayers. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I did as soon as I saw your post. I just forgot to post a mention to you. I'm sure there are many many prayers for you that aren't being mentioned on your thread.

Take care k

Dear K,

my thoughts are with you and I wish I could send you "strength & power" for the situation you are in right now.

Are these "new" bills or are they "old ones"?

When will you be talking to Steve H.?

BTW: you've got mail. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

take care of yourself
bb

Lord,

We lift up K to you. We pray that you would heal her broken heart and give her the strength to forgive as you have forgiven her.

Let her find shelter and healing in your arms, and hope in your promises.

She has turned her husband over to you, and we know that you are able to deliver him and transform him. Let him be brought to repentance, and reconcile him to yourself and to K.
You know his ways, and you know how to deal with him, and nothing is too hard for you.

We pray that her husband would come to his senses and be drawn to the love that K has for him. That he will cherish her.

Let any bond between him and the ow be permanently severed. Open his eyes and let him see her as a dangerous trap, and flee from any contact with her.

My thoughts and prayers are with you!

T

Thank you all.....

I was able to control myself last night, and do a great Plan A.

The bills are recent, before he moved back home. I still have issues with the cell phones.

God will take care of that.

This morning, the only song that comes to mind is "In everthing give thanks".

My song of the day.

Kind, loving people, all of you.

K

K,

A prayer for your husband from the book "Power Of A Praying Wife".

Lord, you have said to call upon you in the day of trouble and you will deliver us (Psalm 50:15). I call upon you now and ask that you would work deliverance in K's husbands life. Deliver him form anything that binds him, set him free from the addiction of adultry, set him free from the addiction of dishonesty, set him free from the addition of the OW. Deliver him quickly and be a rock of refuge and a fortress of defense to save him. Lift him away from the hands of the enemy (Psalm 31:15).
Bring him to a place of understand where he can recognize the work of evil and cry out to you for help. Give him the certainty that even in his most hopeless state, when he find it impossible to change anything, you, Lord can change everything.
Help K's husband Lord to understand we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against prinipalities, against powers, against rulers of the darkness of this age. I pray that he will be strong in the Lord and put on the whole armor of God, so he can stand against the wiles of the devil in the evil day. Help him to gird his waist with truth and put on the breastplace of righteousness. Enable him to take up the sheild of faith with which to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked. I pray that he will take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the spirit which is the word of God.

For you K,

The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer, my God, my strength, in whom I will trust, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold. I will call upon the Lord who is worthy to be praised, so shall I be saved from my enemies. (Psalm 18)

Stay strong and be Blessed

HO

Thank you....

HO from your lips, to God's ears.

I also keep you all in my prayers.

K

My prayers are with you tonight, and I hope God answers it for you real soon. Our father has a way of letting us know he is listening....My heart and prayers go out to you tonight.

K,

I will also pray for you as I've been doing for myself every night since my D'day!

Lord, I also pray that you DRIVE A WEDGE between K's H and all that is evil. Lord, I pray that you will take off the blinders that are on him and let him be disgusted by what he sees and what he is doing to his family.

In the name of JESUS I also rebuke the devil/demon that has a hold of K's (and everyone elses) WS. The devil has no power over our families and our WS as long as we give them over to the Lord, in the name of JESUS I pray.

Praying for all of us out here!

Native