Hello folks just a little update,
I didn't speak to WW for most of yesterday and then i had to foreward her some of her email to her new account and while i did that i IM her to let her know i had sent it. She basically said hello and how i was doing. told her ok and i asked the same of her and she stated that she went to counseling today and she felt pretty good comming out <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I said really and she went into explaining how she liked this counselor and how she felt this one really listen to her,and didn't push her on meds right away. STated she cried for most of the time, but talked with her for about hour and 10mins. Stated she did this for herself. I replied good it is a start and told her i was proud of her. She said thanks you.
I kind of appologized for comming down so hard on her the night before with my new info. on OM and telling her parents and told her the only reason why was i was worried about her safety and that i still loved her. She stated she understood and appreciated it, but kind of said OM and his STBX have their problems, Om has his and we have ours and to try to not let us involve in there problems. I'd asked if she told OM she said she did and stated that he was surprised by what i did. I said to her he probably denied everything i said. She said it was too difficult to talk to him about it on email. STAtes will talk with him when he gets back from sea trial <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I don't know if she is planning telling him it is over between the two of them or not. She had stated the night i told her about what i found out that she was going to tell him it was over and that she missed the boys and me, but i kind of railroaded over that part with newly aquired info. that i found out <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
So i am hoping she is seriously going to tell him it is over. I keep thinking what someone posted me here yesterday. It took her a long time to build this guy up in her mind as being MR.Right it will take some time for her to see him for what he is. I holding onto this and just sitting back and observe what happens. I hope the counselor doesn't turn her the other way.
I had asked her if she was being completely honest and upfront with counselor and she admitted that she was. Even told me that counselor had pointed out a few things about me in what i may have been feeling or thinking, and WW wife said she never thought about it in that way. This was good.
Just hope she conts. and breaks up with OM for good.
I guess i should see this as a good thing. It was one of my terms that she knew she had to meet in order for us to get out of the starting gate. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Any suggestions or opinions ??
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