Hi Dad2,

Well, it's too late now for you to be the rock for your family while Mom2's dad passed. It is NOT TOO LATE for you to be the rock for your sons during Mom2's time of getting through the initial stages of grief.

Be the rock Dad2, your sons need their father now more than ever. This is your time to be with them. There is not a lot of time before you choose your illigetimate daughter over them with your time and money. Please do not leave them now--they don't have much time with you left, and they need you.

Dad2, if you choose to abandon your sons again now to be with OW now when they need you, I want you to think of this every time you reach your "happy ending" when you have sex with OW---you're j**king off ON YOUR SONS at the same time!!!

Your sons need your time and attention now. Please give it to them. OW isn't going anywhere--you said yourself she's desperate. She'll put up with anything, including you being a responsible father to your sons at a time they need their dad.

Take care Dad2, and I mean that sincerely

P.S. My apologies to the board and to the Moderators if this was too graphic.

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