So..I was on the phone with my Mom tonight..just going over some details re our impending move

[it looks like H will now not be deploying..the person I initially exposed him to at his company..who was himself a BS, and whose eyes turned red and teared up..and who told me how suprised he was that rather than attack H I sought help for him..put him on a list of those not to be sent..but rather moved to a different company..wow, you never know who is looking out for you]

and just ordinary stuff..DD school pics in..yes, I got one for you too..yes it's a big one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Baby is growing very fast, yes DS1 is excited to be starting school next year..

Ordinary stuff. And I noticed..that she was now referencing my future to include FWH. That she complimented a few of his decisions. This..from a woman who emphatically told me..time and again..that there was no hope..is now seeing hope..is now applauding choices that show preference to WH rather than to my immediate benefit..choices for us as a recovered family rather than choices that move me away and make me safe.

I would exhibit less suprise at a meteor strike.

Just taking it all in,

Noodle

noodle - why did my mother call you? (smile). good to hear things are hopeful for you and your family

Brown

Noodle,

I am so glad for you that your husband is not being deployed. That is one stress you do NOT need in your life. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />