OK i swear men I can't understand then.....so STBX comes over wednesday night for visitation....I am somewhat cordial but not really giving him the attention i normally do...because I am done with him pretty much....my DS is teeter tottering around and interacting with both of us...everytime I see STBX out of the corner of my eye he looks longing....then as he was playing with DS he starts crying and tearing up......he asked me what we were doing for thanksgiving and I told him....he said oh...and said NOTHING else....didn't ask if he could see DS or anything....so the next day is Thanksgiving I go do what we had planned...get home and I have this email to look forward to:

I just wanted to wish you and DS a Happy Thanksgiving. I hope your
Thanksgiving went well.

ok and he is writing this because? so i wrote him back:

we had an excellent thanksgiving...thankyou for your thanksgiving
wishes....hope you enjoyed your thanksgiving as well.

personally I don't really care anymore...I'm done hurting over him....I have someone in my life now who has taken a real interest in me and I like him alot too I haven't told STBX about him...not really his business and I don't want him to use it as an excuse for his mistress to visit with my son where as the guy I am interested in hasn't even met him and probally won't for a long while....so is STBXH finally seeing I am moving on and hurting?

<small>[ November 26, 2004, 10:36 PM: Message edited by: missinghimterribly ]</small>

Missinghimterribly,

I'm a bit confused about your post. What do you want? Do you want him back (as your tag would seem to suggest)? Do you simply want him to hurt?

Why are you seeing anyone? Why is he? It sounds like you both have a great deal of business between you -- why do you seem to be gloating over his pain? What do you want?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by missinghimterribly:

personally I don't really care anymore...I'm done hurting over him....I have someone in my life now who has taken a real interest in me and I like him alot too I haven't told STBX about him...not really his business and I don't want him to use it as an excuse for his mistress to visit with my son where as the guy I am interested in hasn't even met him and probally won't for a long while....so is STBXH finally seeing I am moving on and hurting?</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Could very well be but what is more concerning is that you seem to have gotten yourself involved in an EA. Does the other man know that you are still a married woman?