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FL,
thankyou for thinking of me...did you sense I am not doing too great??
H and I have been hot and cold...had a rough week 2 weeks ago...when he is selfish it kills me inside. when my en's are stepped on, my thoughts drift to you know who...how he made me feel----happy,sexy, wanted, whatever! Yes, my H loves me. He doesn't think anything's wrong. He's so stubborn...we sit down and talk, but he is set in his ways...I don't know....I feel like a cow in the herd( is that how you spell it? )just goin' with the flow of the marriage..
Thankyou for posting to me...I'm definitely in a funk today...
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hi jetgirl,
so what is the plan for you??? if you don't have a plan, nothing will change. want to discuss a plan here?
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yes, let's discuss a plan. i need all the help i can get...i am committed to my marriage, and i know my h is as well. i don't doubt that. there is nc...through a mutual friend i heard om is moving out of state(yeah!)in april. so, that can't be a bad thing...honestly, it hurt alittle. i'm still trying to adjust to never ever talking to him again.
so, do you have any advice??
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of course i do jetgirl... honesty. so you guys can really get to the bottom of the marriage issues.
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oh, the bottom...i've been there for a while.somedays i feel great! i love my h, my kids, great house, job, friends...BAM. somethings missing that day. i think it's time to talk to someone else besides my friends. ding-ding!! that could be the start of my plan...
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i do believe that would be a very good place to start.
have you ever been in IC before? finding the right one is very important but can also be very hard. i suppose the first step is to make a few calls. huh? i remember when i had to make those calls, robby really helped me with that one.
keep in touch jetgirl!!
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how goes the search for IC jetgirl?
thinking of you.
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