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i need help i got married 3 months ago and i feel like having an affair already ! this feeling is not helping me be a good wife .
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nance,
Get the book His Needs/Her Needs by Willard Harley. Read through the website for help with MB principals and tell us more of what brings you here after only 3 months of marriage?
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Please, please, please do not do that.
If you are not happy then vent here. You will find nothing but support for your situation.
You have some guts admiting your problem before it gets turned into a real problem.
Please, stop and choose a different course of action.
Share your story, you will probably find someone around here that can relate and maybe even give some advice if you are willing to hear some.
Thanks for stopping by here when you did.
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Nancecanada, you can’t always control your feelings by you CAN control your actions. Please don’t act on your feelings and do something you will regret for the rest of your life...
Please post and tell us more about your story... We can’t properly help you without more information.
Suzet <small>[ December 02, 2004, 04:09 AM: Message edited by: Suzet* ]</small>
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No matter what you do, don't have an A. Consider this place like visiting a hospital full of victims of drunk driving...look around at all the ugly consequences and you will hand over the keys....
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I don't want to sound blunt but have you asked yourself: What is preventing you from getting a divorce????
If you ask yourself that question then at least you might come to understand what "good things" are letting you "stick in your marriage". I'd then work from there. Step by step.
What needs were being fullfilled before you decided to get married first of all??? I mean, 3 months is a very short time. What were you thinking in the first place???
How long did you know your husband before marriage? What was your relationship like right before getting married?
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