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A while back, I was reading posts and discovered someone that I could have sworn was my FOM. It really shook me and I stopped posting for a while. When I came back, I got a new user name, started posting again, and as far as I have seen that poster is either gone or has also changed their username.
Just wondering if this awkward situation has happened to anyone else?
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No me...OW has terrible english...i bet i would have spotted her immediately.. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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wow zizzy...do we have the same FOW ? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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I have a friend who used to post here. She figured out one of the posters was her OW and the OW figured out that she was the BS. The OW then used her postings to torture my friend. You know by talking a lot about how great she felt to be with friend's husband and a lot of details along that line which H said were fabricated. This was very painful to my friend.
My friend stopped posting here because she figured out that OW was using this site to stay connected to her husband and learning the intimate details of their recovery. How many of us would like the OP to know exactly how much pain we are in, how our recovery is going and all of the other things we post here?
Cathy
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How many of us would like the OP to know exactly how much pain we are in, how our recovery is going and all of the other things we post here?
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Interesting question posed BP. It definately made me have to think...not a quick answer is it ?
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I know that in the 4+ years I've been here there have been several run-ins with a BS or WS and OP.
One that comes to mind was when a BS had posted here on MB for some time and the OW site had an OW that lurked and read here. She saw the BS's D-Day date and discovered after reading her posts for a while that it was her boyfriend's wife.
She posted her discovery on the OW board, and, of course, someone there came here and posted.
Needless to say, it was NOT pretty.
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<small>[ December 03, 2004, 11:51 PM: Message edited by: Resilient ]</small>
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I think I remember that one. That was like way way back wasn't it?
Like in '99 and the other board was gloryb?
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<small>[ December 04, 2004, 06:28 AM: Message edited by: dewt ]</small>
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