FiM,

Please check on the thread by happy_girl. A few posts in she is talking about her husbands' swearing on his daughter and his mom as good evidence that he is being faithful. He's Hispanic, and not unlike Dork, they take family things very seriously.

But I know, and you know, that even men with strong family ties can do the goll-darndest things when they are in an affair.

Perhaps you could encourage her a bit and at the same time share some of the things that Dork has done that you would never have believed he could possibly be capable of.

~ Snow

PS And, oh, yeah, update your thread. We're all hoping that things are still going OK.