Just a quick update on my situation...

WW is still foggy. Not sure about living situation with OM anymore. I get the impression he's not much in the picture now, but don't know for sure and sadly I don't care anymore. WW said she's moving and it didn't sound like OM was in the moving plans so I'm not sure what that means.

Legal issues are almost sorted out. More on that once they are done.

Kids are doing great. My DS4 seems to be back to his normal cheery, busy self. He seemed to take the separation the worst but seems to be adjusting to it now. My other older two are really quite happy, but I'm preparing for more action on that front in the future.

Myself, I think I'm happier than I've been for years but I definitely do have my days. I am lonely (but I was in the marriage as well) but not willing to confuse things by getting involved with anyone else at this time. I am also a bit lost trying to find the new (unmarried) me. But I think it'll be good when I do!

I'm official going to add "Plan D" to my signature line as I cannot see myself going back to the way things were before. I think I've really been in Plan D for some time, but held onto a faint hope that things would magically turn around. I'm sure some day she'll wake up, but I'm already gone...

Miker