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I don't understand you Bob, you come across as a NICE guy here (I'm not half as nice <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> ) and yet you have a WW. What needs were you not meeting? I'm not sure if I can be half the man you are so I'm getting a little nervous about my reconciliation. I talk to SH once a week (talked to Steve this AM) he always makes me feel good. He keeps me in check, someone has to or I'll blow it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Would you be so kind and tell me what happened? Thanks <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Andrew <small>[ December 06, 2004, 06:26 PM: Message edited by: TA ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by TA: <strong> I don't understand you Bob, you come across as a NICE guy here (I'm not half as nice <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> ) and yet you have a WW. What needs were you not meeting? I'm not sure if I can be half the man you are so I'm getting a little nervous about my reconciliation. I talk to SH once a week (talked to Steve this AM) he always makes me feel good. He keeps me in check, someone has to or I'll blow it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Would you be so kind and tell me what happened? Thanks <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Andrew </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">***edit**** <small>[ December 06, 2004, 03:31 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Cymanca: <strong> ****edit***** </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">My doctor told me I cannot physically Masturbate while my wife and I are not together. He said I have to learn Self Control. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> I'll bet Priest have more fun than me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I can safely say I would have won that contest on Jerry Seinfeld "I'm the Master of my Domain." <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <small>[ December 06, 2004, 03:56 PM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>
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PLEASE.......... I may end up eating these words but please,,,, Give him another chance.. Hopefully, he's learning.... And, again,,feel free to email me with any complaints, questions or suggestions,,,, (Language filter will be turned on... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> )
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Justuss: <strong> PLEASE.......... I may end up eating these words but please,,,, Give him another chance.. Hopefully, he's learning.... And, again,,feel free to email me with any complaints, questions or suggestions,,,, (Language filter will be turned on... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> ) </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thank You. If anyone has checked my responses I have been very cordial over the last week. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> SH asked me this morning if people were still ripping me apart? I said yes, but now it's down to a few naysayers. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> I guess my actions will speak louder than words. I feel 10x better now that my wife has spoken to SH. I was so upset with the psycologist and counselors I was seeing. None of them helped me, I felt hopeless. Now after my wife talked to SH last Thursday I feel great. My wifes attitude has taken a 180. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> At least now I feel I have a chance. Thanks Andrew
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Wow TA,
It is a new you!! Welcome!!
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by CSue: <strong> Wow TA, It is a new you!! Welcome!! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thank you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I guess I lost all self control when I thought our marriage was doomed. I apologized to everyone several times and I will do so again. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> I feel like "I" am now in control not my wife. SH talked to my wife last Thursday and completely changed her attitude, almost a 180. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Now I'm Happy <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> and she's depressed. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I feel sorry for her but I hope she snaps out of it soon. Andrew
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Well TA,
You see she has reason to feel depressed. She is starting to feel the consequences of her actions. It's normal...I don't know if you're the right one to suggest this, so check with SH - but she might want to start some anti-depressants to help her through this process. Just not the ones that have sexual side effects. They are never helpful.
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Wow Justuss, my very first edit! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
OK TA, I told you I would be there for you IF you were sincere about being here to Marriage Build. You may be wondering how that can be accomplished. One very important thing to remember is that people take time and effort out of their own busy lives to post.
Responding in detail to the questions asked, showing that you have thought about them carefully will help show that you are here to learn how to be a better person, a better husband. For example, ForeverHers has written some very excellent posts to you, in response saying something along the lines of "Thanks, keep it coming" and then continuing to post along your own self interest would not be considered an example of what I'm talking about. You want to answer to show that you understand what is being presented to you.
You may want to go back to your last threads on the Recovery Board and look over some of the questions and ideas proposed within and respond to them. It is not too late to do this and the threads contain excellent questions and advice.
You'll have your work cut out for you but it really should have been done the first time. It's all already on the Recovery Board TA, I'd hate to see you repost what you already have three times over. You've got Chris and K on your threads, those are the BIG GUNS (Steve Harley's long time friends) so pay close attention to what they tell you. What do you think? KB
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Justuss: And, again,,feel free to email me with any complaints, questions or suggestions,,,, </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I emailed you <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Pep
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Okay, am I supposed to be confused?
I see a ton of edits, and I am LOST!
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TA whatever your motivation in asking, my story is all over the board if you care to search.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Bob Pure:
<strong> TA whatever your motivation in asking, my story is all over the board if you care to search. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">There are so many posts by you I couldn't find the one that listed the reasons why?
Could you link me to one?
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TA - Why don't you consider changing the title of your post?
You could change your topic title to something like:
**Bob Pure, You're the Man!**
**Bob Pure, How did you do it?**
**Bob Pure, I need some help**
**Bob Pure, What's Your Secret?**
**Bob Pure, I like Your Style**
**Bob Pure, You're a Nice Guy**
TA - I think if you'll spend a bit more time thinking about how OTHERS will react to your posts, that you'll get more responses....
Semper Fi,
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