I normally hear fro DD at 8:45am and 3:45pm and 9:00pm.........I did not call yesterday DD called me at 8:30 last night just to say hi and goodnite....I did not hear this morning or at 3:46
pm so I am going to call her.......

Yes, you can talk with her.
Did you read "Surviving An Affair"?
Why does you rwife have the kids?

How familiar with MB is your professional counselor who is helping you with Plan B?

Frank,
I absolutely agree with Chris, get MB counselling on the phone. It would be money well spent due to the drawn out drama that has gone on for months on end.

YES, you still call your daughter, you are her father. I asked some questions on your other thread and still wonder what your long term plans are.

You were getting bad advice from your laywer and your counsellor and I strongly encourage you to pick up the phone and call The Harleys. Plan B needs to be well excecuted and you need to have a specific plan. Please consider it.

Frank, you out there? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

what do you mean by a good plan.?

What I mean is that you have been in a very unstable situation for months.(I think it's coming up on a year) Your WW is living with the OM and tells you and your family that she wants nothing to do with you. It seems that she has no intention of resuming your relationship.

Your D is living off and on with you and your WW and the OM who happens to be dangerous ie: weapons charges, killing your D's cat.

You say that you are still in love with your WW.

You say that you are in Plan B. Did you send a Plan B letter? I have never heard you answer that question. You are not in Plan B until your WW receives the letter.

Your WW told you months ago that she wanted a divorce but wanted you to file so you would have to pay.

Your lawyer has continued to allow your D to live in an unsafe home.

Your counselor gave you anti_MB advice and apparantly talked you out of sending the Plan B letter that you had ready months ago.

To continue in this limbo is fine and dandy if you and your WW did not have a child. To allow your child to continue living this drama is abuse.

I will advise you to pick up the phone and get MB professional help NOW. We are not qualified to help you in legal matters and you need to get off the fence and make some difficult decisions for the sake of your D.

I hope this answered your question. If I seem harsh it is because no one here can help you if we enable you to do nothing.

Continued prayers, Ladysing

<small>[ December 09, 2004, 07:29 AM: Message edited by: Ladysing58 ]</small>

Frank, I see you were here this afternoon. What is going on? Have you given your WW a Plan B letter? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Frank, this thread shows why posters are frustrated with your new thread. I will not continue to ask questions, just to pray for you. Ladysing