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I am the WS and as a result my H had 2 EA during the last 4 months. I understand the reasoning behind them. I have found out before my A my H had several EA during the past 25 years. I have worked very hard to make this marriage work. The one that bothers me is the last one. He feels the need to come to her aide, not that I have been disrespectul. I am thankful strange sense.
I know the PA I had, does not compare to him....But a PA is not what concerns me, it's the EA. He has told me it is over, but I continue to have this intuition, which I have had since discovery of my A. I am not trying to defend or compare whqat I have done. I just want my marriage to work and heal. I don't see this as part of the healing...It only adds confusion and concern. I am looking for answers..
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Read the concepts section above and then read the books: Surviving an Affair & His Needs/Her Needs. Both are by Dr. W. Harley.
Then get with a good MC or better yet, setup phone counseling with Steve @ MB. Steve is great with the WS H's.
You are both WS/BS which can add additional stress to your personal and marital recovery processes. Do this ASAP.
Also take the EN Questionnaire in the concepts section. It is free.
All the best.
L.
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