Here is a short version of what I am dealing with. November 2, 2003 my mother died in a fire. December 4, 2003 my 8 year old son was diagnosed with leukemia. December 26, 2003 I found out my husband was having an affair. February 6, 2004 my father was diagnosed with leukemia.

Right now I have so many lows. Worse than 6 months ago. But also my husband has lied to me so many times about contact with her. I found out around July 4 they were still contacting each other, only for him to say they wouldn't anymore. Then September 24 I found out again that they were still contacting each other. He said absolutely no more contact. Then I find out six weeks later he called her just one time he says to see how she is doing. Now supposedly he won't do it anymore. (They agreed not to contact each other) I hate that word "they". I don't know how much more of this I can take. I thought by this time, one year later I would either be divorced or everything would be okay. I probably feel worse now then I did 6 months ago. I don't know how I will ever believe him again. I saw someone said they got telephone records of the other person. Would somebody tell me how to do this. I think this is the only way of me knowing for sure if he is continuing to lie. Of course he has a cell phone through work and she has a cell phone also. Can I get those records. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

do a google search and ask for cell phone records.

L.