WW wants a divorce.. Is it truly the end? This is the second time my WW wife told me this. Both of us admit that once she said it. The big knot in our stomach diminished (somewhat).
Does this mean the end? Should I still have hope for a future?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Fighting 4 my wife:
<strong>Does this mean the end? Should I still have hope for a future? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, I don't really know your story, so I can't really answer that question...

I can offer my experience and say that twice I thought it was over... She made it pretty clear and I believed her. I shouldn't have. I should have said "Yes, dear," and Plan A-ed my little heart out.

You see, my W and I are living together now and perhaps maybe yes, we might be heading towards recovery. Slowly, yes, but it's looking good. Had I stayed true to what I knew was right when my hope waned, what I would be facing now would be a WHOLE lot simpler.

So, I guess my advice is to practice saying, "Yes, dear."

Read the MB site. Not just the posts. Keep working on YOU. Someday this will all be the past, and the choices you make now will determine where you are when that time comes.

Take it easy,

dewt

<small>[ December 09, 2004, 09:04 PM: Message edited by: dewt ]</small>

Naaa. This is fogtalk. Ignore it and continue with your Plan A.

If you are in Plan A...just continue to plan A.

My WH has said that a number of times too. It is the guilt that is making them confuse.

Dont let their talk and confusion stray you in your path...keep to your plans and ignore the fog babbling.