Do I have a way to show my WW I have her best interest at heart over her OM? She is out with him right now, I am sure of that. She has been very quiet about the party she is going to. How do I break the bond she has with her OM. Should I just walk away from this or confront her with what I think are more lies <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Never confront unless you have 100% proof, You can ask her to be honest. Tell her you felt like she was out with Om tonght and that it hurts you when you have these thoughts, Be kind and respectful and if she say's yes, don't get mad and don't be judgmental.

If you Love your wife, the don't give up on your Marriage.

You need to find out why she had the A ( Affair ) and then find out what her EN's are ( Emotional Needs ) and find ways to fullfill them.

I don't know your story, so you might want to post it.

1) How long Married
2) Any Kids
3) When did you find out about Affair
4) Have you asked her to stop contacting Om
5) How long has Wife been having this Affair
6) Have you read about Plans A and B
7) Does Om have a wife and kids or just a wife
8) If so you need to conatct OM's wife and tell her

Keep in mind that if you want to save your marriage it can be done but it is a time consuming event that will make you happy and sad and make you wonder if at times if you are making the right choice, but trust me if you love your wife then it will make it all worth the while.

You need to do whatever it takes to get your wife to end this Affair.

Any other questions, feel free to post them