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My WS and I have been working on R. The om is still in the picture more than I thought. His girlfriend called and told me she had intercepted a voice mail from my WS to him. She has no reason to lie. I also saw my WS on the OM street last night and she denies this as well as having any contact with the OM. How do I handle this.
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That's what they all do. Lie to keep in contact, while denying it the whole time.
Let your wife know that it hurts you when she continues to do this. Are you in Plan A?
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Lying is a pretty typical MO. Most WS do it to try and hang onto the OP(and the fantasy). You know she is lying and getting her to admit it may be very difficult. The important thing is...you know! You can Plan A! Remember, recovery will be very difficult with OM still in the picture.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by mgm:
Remember, recovery will be very difficult with OM still in the picture. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I would say ... recovery is impossible until OM is gone.
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