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#1243172 12/14/04 10:00 PM
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WW and I have been separated since March 04. We have met to discuss a legal separation agreement several time. Last week WW come over to our house (WW is living w/ her parents) and sits right next to me and starts to talk about kids etc. After a while of this I tell her I want this to end one way or the other. WW tells me she understands that I want to move on and see others, etc.. After this she begins to go through clothes of hers that I have packed up for her to review. She and I look at one another, we embrace, we kiss like the the first time we met in HS. We end up making love, her leaving and both of us asking "What just happened?"

What did happen you guys?
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#1243173 12/14/04 10:03 PM
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Maybe everyone is having doubts ?
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#1243174 12/14/04 10:05 PM
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Hard to say. Maybe a major breakthrough. Have you talked to her since that night?
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#1243175 12/14/04 10:22 PM
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I'm on my high horse... all bets are off.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">WW and I have been separated since March 04.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This makes me angry! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

endit, I don't know your story, but I feel for you BIG time.

Can someone... ANYone... explain to people like me who don't understand... what IS IT with these WS's who go on forever sitting on the @#^&% fence... ??!? What keeps them from putting the M out of its misery once and for all?!?

The simple answer can't be that simple.
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#1243176 12/14/04 10:52 PM
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i say her again today. i came home from work early and WW came by to get youngest son. she was giving me compliments on this and that...she left saying she will talk to me later. i did call her later tonight and left a message that i want to meet and get the sep agreement signed.

i think she is starting to see what life is w/o a marriage. she is having to handle things herself now. in the past she was sooo having her cake and eating it too.

part of me (giver) wants to hold her close and my other part wants to get away far away from her. but it appears that her old taker self is getting up and running again. i wish all of this was easier but....
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i say her again today. i came home from work early and WW came by to get youngest son. she was giving me compliments on this and that...she left saying she will talk to me later. i did call her later tonight and left a message that i want to meet and get the sep agreement signed.

i think she is starting to see what life is w/o a marriage. she is having to handle things herself now. in the past she was sooo having her cake and eating it too.

part of me (giver) wants to hold her close and my other part wants to get away far away from her. but it appears that her old taker self is getting up and running again. i wish all of this was easier but....

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