Well, it's been a few weeks.

Still technically married. I don't think H has really looked into filing.

Last week I met with him to get some christmas decorations. We met at Fridays at about 9:30pm and stayed there talking and laughing until the place closed at 1am. We had a really good time. At one point one of his students that has been with him since the time when we met 8 years ago (he was there through out entire relationship) but hadn't gone to his class for the past year so he had no idea we are seperated. He came up to us and was like "hey guys, how's everything going?" We were both like everything's pretty good and that was that. Still it was a little funny.

Then we didn't talk until today when I called him because I needed to give him some bins and such that some of my things had been stored in. So he suggested we meet at a restaurant where I could give him the bins. I agreed and we went. We talked and laughed a lot again. Had a good time. Then he got a phone call. It was probably nothing but it consisted of the following dialog:
"Oh hey!, I'm at a restaurant, can I call you later?"

Still, it's the same phone that he always used to call her on and all of a sudden I got sick to my stomach and had to run to the washroom.

When we were leaving, we ran into my manager and it was a little strange introducing her to him because at work I call him my husband (although they know what's going on) but I couldn't call him that in front of him because I don't know how he would react to that so I just introduced him by name.

Then I gave him the bins and some of his shirts that ended up with my things.

The strange thing about it all is that he kept bringing up things we did in the past, both times we met.

He knows that I've been asked out a lot during the past few months and on both occasions he brought up that nobody has asked him out and that he hasn't been on any "dates".

He knows I have a friend that I've been going out with and he kept asking how everything was going with that. Claims it doesn't bother him if I date and that he's happy to see that I'm out and about having fun and doing things that I never did before. Still on both occations he kept bringing up my friend aand asking questions about him.

Anyway, he was supposed to file for the DV but that doesn't seem to be high on his list. He never tries to contact me on his own, but when we do meet we always have a really good time together. It just makes things foggy for me now. I was finally all ready for the upcoming DV, even though I still want to try to work it out sometimes. I'm finally doing well. I've been offered a new position at work and I was moving on. Who knows when or if he'll go through with the DV.

Well, that's about it.

<small>[ December 14, 2004, 09:15 PM: Message edited by: ivoryivy ]</small>