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Re: stupidity v former confident people
#1244280 12/17/04 11:37 AM
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Point taken my dear Weaver.
I will not make that comparison again.
Re: stupidity v former confident people
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weaver

Yes lots of backsliding thats why the stupidity title.

Formulating Plan B setting time limit that suits me and only me

WH is trying to lead a double life one with me and all our activities making plans going on outings etc But still in contact and seeing OW what a nerd.

I think it is the fear of the unknown that some times stops us doing the right thing but there always comes a point when the light bulb goes on we are no longer blind
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W.Harley (or maybe it was Pitman) compares the addiction of an affair to that of smoking cigarettes as far as quitting goes. Just make up your mind you will not do it again. Period. That is how you quit smoking and that is how you quit an affair.

I like that comparison, and believe me I know how hard it is to give up smokes. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


Sorry Dying, I'm through thread jacking I think.

Will look for the details of you plan tonight. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Re: stupidity v former confident people
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I think it is the fear of the unknown that some times stops us doing the right thing but there always comes a point when the light bulb goes on we are no longer blind

Okay. Don't let this go on for too long though.
Re: stupidity v former confident people
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Dyinghere,

I just read my posts to you and my gosh I sound bossy, don't I. I'm sorry for that. Hope I didn't tick you off.

Now get back here right now, we are not done! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Just kidding...

But I am concerned. I don't like to see a woman stay in a sitch where her WH is active in the affair still. Not good for a womans soul. That is why I am so bossy about Plan B I guess, it is concern more than anything.
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