Just wanted to introduce myself to the board since I've been lurking here for a while. I'll try to learn all of the abbreviations as soon as possible but if I inadvertently spell out Burger King Whopper Jr. Meal instead of the more appropriate BKWJr.M - I ask your forgiveness in advance. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I am now almost a year into recovery from my WW second PA. Things have been going ok but it seems that just recently I have found myself in some of the same emotional turmoil that I was in last Jan. I'm starting to think it truly came with the snow and colder temps. Almost as if they were a trigger. Plausible? Anyway - I feel like my emotions are getting the best of me again. Feeling the same old feelings, worries, anxiety, mental images. Need new ways to combat this because it's really turning into bitterness toward my FWW.

Thanks.

Hi Flukie,

Welcome to MB. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

First,if you need a list of acronyms, there is one on the JFO(Just Found Out) board.We also have a Recovery message board that you might like to read,if you have not done so already.

Is your FWW(former wayward wife) giving you some mixed signals toward recovery that are making you feel unsure about things? What exactly are you doing now,together,to prevent an A from happening again(plan)? Your FWW has now had 2 A's and it is difficult to hear that a person was put through that more than once.

How do you feel about that? Have any children? How about getting a profile for all of us ok?

O

<small>[ December 17, 2004, 01:40 PM: Message edited by: Octobergirl ]</small>

WTMB & HNTMY (htp) Flukie!

(Thats Welcome to Marriage Builders and Hello Nice to meet you - hold the pickles <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

One year can be tough. At one year a lot of anger surfaced for me. The best thing you can do is TALK ABOUT IT!! Keep the lines of communication open!

H and I are in major trigger time and we have conversations about it almost everyday. We both need each other to listen and comfort each other.

Has there been NC for a year? Post some more details of your story and we can help you better!

Ok, I pretty much copied Fraggles profile. What is most helpful. I'm afraid the whole story is somewhat long (like I have a corner on that market). <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Do you want a bullet point timeline or a story?

double post. DANG! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

<small>[ December 17, 2004, 02:16 PM: Message edited by: Flukie ]</small>

Bring it on.Long or short we have heard it all.Just be sure to break up them paragraphs if you choose the long story.

Also,just sos you know,Friday late afternoon through Sunday night is usually slow around here.Don't take it personally.Usual business hours are Monday through Friday 9-5. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

O