tqt, earlier on my other thread you said you see LOTS of similarities in our sitchuations. would you care to talk about some of them? if you have any ideas or suggestions i would be happy to hear them. i am not familar with your stoty, so i am just curious to hear anything encouraging about the prospects for my M. i have been pretty down since MC yesterday, but it is only 8.5 weeks since DD. and also, i agree with you that myrta and buttercup are giving good advice, they have been wonderful support. just thought it would be good to hear from someone who has been in my shoes .thanks ...arjdad

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by arjdad:
<strong> tqt, earlier on my other thread you said you see LOTS of similarities in our sitchuations. would you care to talk about some of them? if you have any ideas or suggestions i would be happy to hear them. i am not familar with your stoty, so i am just curious to hear anything encouraging about the prospects for my M. i have been pretty down since MC yesterday, but it is only 8.5 weeks since DD. and also, i agree with you that myrta and buttercup are giving good advice, they have been wonderful support. just thought it would be good to hear from someone who has been in my shoes .thanks ...arjdad </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">arjdad,

You know what? I feel bad that I haven't been able to keep up with your situation.
You know why ?!! Because I'm knee-deep in it just like you are. This just takes so much time and energy and I feel like everything I do/say... don't do/say... is so critical, so important...

And I KNOW you're going thru the same !@#!. Right now, as we speak, I'm trying to reconcile the fact that I spent another Saturday night home alone... that just AIN'T ME... BUT.. We're BOTH gonna be ok --- trust me.
Hey,.. "Travelin' Man" is on-board right now, and he needs some help -- if you're still on tonight, let's give 'em a hand.

tqt,-- sorry that it seems all i want to do is talk about my problems. i do feel for everyone else that is here going thru the same thing. like you said, it is very time consuming. i am sorry you are going thru this, i know it sucks, especially this time of year.keep your chin up and keep trying, thats all we can do. thanks for the encouragement,..... arjdad

and thank YOU for the encouragement, arjdad!