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tonight, while WH was home picking up kids to go Christmas shopping for me.. I gave WH a deadline, come January 1, he needs to make a decsion 1. come home and work on the M 2. continue to be out of the house but go to MC and work on the M, or Plan B no contact until he makes a decision. I figure he'll go with Plan B.. it's been 9 months from D day.. I will let him come for Christmas I even want him here for Christmas, but this guy has been caking eating for too long...
Everyday I feel myself getting stronger and Iam ready to do Plan B... if thas his choice...
I feel ike if I don't tkae control he'll never decide...
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yes, I believe time will heal wounds, thats why Iam ready for plan B, after 9 months of Please come home it'll be different.. I'll be different, he is not different... I refuse to be a door mat any longer... he's afraid that if he says we're through maybe in 6 months or a year he'll feel different.. I on the other hand want to move on with my life with or without him. I bought the book torn asunder and was thinking of giving it to him for Christmas...
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quick note.. Iam for #2 stat out of the house but date each other only, and MC...
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