December 25th will mark the 3 year anniversary for D-day. Things have been MUCH easier this year. So apparently time is a natural healer. My FWH and I still date weekly and are still very much in love. He still sees FOW at work every day. She even gave us a Christmas card this year <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> FWH seems no longer interested in her and has met all of my demands concerning no contact to the extent possible with her working there.

They even hired a new woman much like FOW. He was nice to her for about a week - during which time I was nervous, but as soon as her colors started to show, she immediately was labeled for what she was and he basically keeps from contact with her too.

So is he reformed? Or am I reformed?

Who knows, but it has been a difficult but rewarding 3 years and I encourage each of you who are trying to work things out, Don't run from the pain. Embrace your partner and work through it.

God Bless and Merry Christmas!