If anyone can give me some insight'
On how not to bring up how much I love my wife and want her back as i\ve done most of the time when ever i see her {even though i do badly } i would Appreciate some help as i do know what LB's i have done and want to repair her love for me in wich she say is no longer there <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Hi,

Maybe we can give you some insight but we need to have some more background.

I found a few posts of yours on different sites. Here is your other thread on GQII.

twirds' background post

Now you need to earn your W's trust back. It is you who stepped out not her as far as you know, correct?

If so, get ahold of the book surviving an affair and the book His Needs/Her Needs. Both are by Dr. W. Harley.

You set high standards for your W and if she is implementing them you have a ways to go to win her back. Now u 2 have only been married for less than 2 years regardless of the prior arrangement.

Read the concepts section above, print out the emotional needs questionnaire and ask your W to take it along with you. Print 2 sets. 1 for each of you. Compare it when you are done. Share it with your MC/IC. Ask then to help you setup a plan or if you can do some phone couseling with Jennifer from MB, it may help.

Read those books and then share the His Needs/Her Needs book with her. You both need to know HOW to communicate with each other.

L.