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Today will be the last time that I know of the WH will see OW for next 5 days.
The question is should I go to office early to stop them saying their private goodbye.
I was going to the office later to fix computer with WH brother. But there is some problem with the payroll I did yesterday ie one of the staff unhappy.
So I clled WH and said I might come in early he did not like this at all went off in a huff and said what ever and goodbye
Suggestions please
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Reread YOUR PLAN. Reread WAT's GUIDELINES. Let them sink in and FOLLOW THEM!!!!!
YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOURSELF.
Been-there, Done-that, Dying.
You are asking for trouble here. This will get you nowhere. You are at high risk for drama which can be disastrous if you go in this direction.
Focus in on yourself. There is nothing that you can do to magically stop him from seeing her. The A has to die on its own.
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thanks mimi
need your stability
will focus on myself
wil not think about it or them
thanks
plan A
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dying,
Your situation is especially trying. But I was just wondering why you would call him and tip him off that you had to come in early. If I were you, I would just do my job and if that means coming in early, so be it. If it interrupts their little "goodbye" ceremony then so be it.
~ Snow
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