Since I wouldnt let him take son on christmas to spend time with OW he uninvited me to Christmas Eve with his family. So now she will be there. I told him he would not be welcome in my home on Christmas. If we are splitting the holiday, we are truly splitting it. I HATE HIM. I hate how he makes me feel. I hate that he just doesnt give a **** what is best for son, only himself and that stupid OW. I hate that he can turn me into someone I dont even recognize anymore.

I am definitely going into plan B next week as planned. I am definitely going to take myself out of the drama. Out of his madness. I cant take it anymore. I cant take her anymore. I cant take him anymore. I cant take what this is doing to my son anymore.

I will move forward as planned. I gave plan A my best shot. It wasnt perfect, but it was a damn goodone, if I say so myself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Im going to pick myself up here and get it together for Christmas day when I will have a wonderful time with son, family and friends. Not around doofus, who only gives me false hope.


I can do this. I am going to do this.

Thank all of you. I dont know where I would be right now w/o MB.

Cookie,

I am sorry the doofus did the foul thing. Is his family ok with the OW and not the W and children?

L.

His mother won't say a word. She will pretend like everything is on the up and up. She and I never had a close relationship, I would call her on her crap and she couldnt stand it. H and I were first loves, we were 13 the first time we started dating. I was there and saw what kind of mother she was and it bothers her she cant pretend she is/was June Cleaver. Im sure her and OW get along beautifully. She now has someone she can talk terrible about me with. H has never done anything wrong according to him, Mother, OW. Its all me. My sins are the only ones that count.
As for the rest of the family, I am still close to his cousins. I have a feeling the cousin I went shopping with yesterday will be saying something to him about what happened. Funny thing about family and OW. She is the cousin of a cousin's husband. Thats how H and OW met. At said cousins wedding that son and I attended as well. I'm sure you can imagine the drama that erupted at the wedding when I figured out what was going on. Even his mother and a few relatives stepped in and told him what was hapening right in front of me and son was wrong and so disrespectful. It was really ugly. His mom actually grabbed him and asked him what the hell he was doing. He and OW were hanging all over each other and H ignored me and son all night. I was so embarrased, mortified and out of control angry. I ended up drinking way too much or I would have gotten son in car and driven the 400 miles home, leaving his dumb a@@ there.

Hmmm...remind me why I want him back again?