Okay so I bought my hubby a new ring for Christmas. Long story, but when we got married we had no money and he got stuck with a really cheap ring and I didn't like it. So I bought him a beautiful ring and was going to give it to him on Christmas. Well things between us have been so up and down this week that I couldn't wait any longer. I gave it to him on Wednesday. He didn't say anything, just listened to me. The ring stayed in the box. On Thursday, after finding out I called his *friend* he was pissed, He told me that he had his mind made up and it doesn't matter if he wears a ring not not blah blah. There was a lot more to the conversation, but you get my point lol

So then yesterday we went to my parent's house. Driving over there, he didn't have the ring on. When we all sat down for dinner, I looked over and saw he had put it on! I was so happy at first. Then I remember what he said to me the day before. He must of had the ring in his pocket and went into the bathroom in put it on.

Why would he do that? Now I am even more confused. He hasn't talked to *her* since Thursday afternoon, I know b/c I check last calls on Verizon's website lol He didn't even text message her. My aunt told me I shouldn't ask him why he put the ring on, so I didn't. Lets just see how long he will keep it on.

BTW, how long does it take before a cell phone company will disconnect your service? We are now 2 1/2 months behind on our bill. I am not paying it and I am waiting for them to turn it off grrrr

He is in 'coaster and you are riding in it along w/ OW. Buckle up.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MomToLilRobandJadabug:
<strong>BTW, how long does it take before a cell phone company will disconnect your service? We are now 2 1/2 months behind on our bill. I am not paying it and I am waiting for them to turn it off grrrr </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Depends ... and it would ruins your credit if it didn't get paid. You should think about your financiall well being. At this moment WH is sick (addiction to A) and you can't trust him to make the right decision for your family.

-rh-

Hi mom....thinking of you today and sending you blessings!! I think there is alot of hope in the action of wearing that ring. What it says (to me) is that he at least for the this day....he feels his connection to you....and that is powerful. Don't expect much....because he is still fooged....but be encouraged....and facet this new year...with hope and peace.

hugs!!!

((((((((((((((((((((mom)))))))))))))))))))))

He still has his ring on, but sure enough he called her yesterday most likely today. I guess that was my Christmas gift, wearing the ring and not talking to her for 2 days