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Perspective.
A new way of looking @ something you've seen over and over and over.
The discovery of an affair gives one perspective.
Having cancer gives one perspective.
Today look @ yourself, your family, your life w/ a new perspective.
Be reborn.
I came here almost four years ago and didn't think that I could EVER appreciate my husband or family more... after learning of his affair.
I was wrong. Life has a way of altering your perspective; if you let it... sometimes even if you don't.
Don't waste time on wouldas, shouldas or couldas. Being right won't win you any prizes.
Love w/ your whole heart. Be kind to yourself and others.
Love,
Cali
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Beautifully said. I agree with you TOTALLY.
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Right on Cali! So very true and I just wish I had "known" these things in my twenties, how different my life might be right now. But that's a "coulda, shoulda, woulda" mindset isn't it, so I will just abandon that train of thought right now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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thank you cali...
wishing you more blessings and good health in the new year...
ARK
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Hi Cali - glad to "see" you.
Warm wishes.
WAT
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Hi Cali--- Once again, you prove why you are the "queen." <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> It's good advice for all here. My best to you for continued "new perspectives" in 2005. E
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