Hi Caren I was reading your posting from Dec 22. I see you moved out from your WH in Sept. I am so unsure about me being the one who moved. I too moved to an apt. in Nov. and left him with the house and it's huge expense. Others tell me I should not have moved because it made it too easy and I can't apply Plan A. But I am applying plan B, pretty well I think. Do you think you were better off moving instead of making him choose? I posted some of my story under Book "surviving an Affair" Dec. 27