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My affair lasted for 4 years. Not even a year in he found out because I got found out and it was either tell him myself or let the other person. So I did. But.. things didnt get better and I went back. So the continued part he does not know about

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larlar,
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm sure that telling your husband about your A continuing, will be very hard. Probably one of the hardest things you have to do. Ending it with the OM will be the other hardest thing. I was on the receiving end of the NC from my OW, and that was hard enough, but I'm sure that she went through a lot of pain too.

What everyone here said so far is good. End it with the OM. Take one step at a time. Come here to talk and read. Start confiding in your H again. Start to piece back your M and see where things stand. It'll be tough. You'll be sad and feel horrible for a while, but we'll all be here for you.

Good luck. We'll all be thinking of you.

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