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This posting of just friends ters my heart up. A year ago my husband wanted to ride to college (1 hr each way) with a younger (13 yrs) female colleague. I said why would you want to set yourself up for this? He said he couldn't just say no. Well, she was just pregnant with her husbands baby when they started to ride. Then he of course had to take care of her and dine with her afterwards. aLL THE WHILE i WAS UNCOMFORTABLE YET i TOLD HIM HE WAS A BIG BOY. tHEN AFTER THE CLASSES HE started studying with her in her classoom. He told me it was no big deal. Then in June I found some not real spicey but kind of uneccessary e-mail interchange. I wrote her a letter and sent her the book "the power of praying for your husband" and told her I loved mine and didn't understand the situation. She wrote me right back that they just had a goofey frienship and I was to be assured she was a chrisitan and commited to her husband and I had nothing to worry about.And that she was sorry for hurting me. Then in July my husband had a conference with 20 coworkers her as one. She had her own room, which most didn't. H said something lame about needing to pump for her new baby (6 weeks old at that point)so I bought it. But I think that was the beginning of their physical relationship my H can be very persuasive and charming and what an opportunity! Well, after a year it has become....
I am still not confirmed but I have moved out and he is seeing someone.. But he keeps throwing me off by telling me she is a committed to her husband christian. I still am dying to know if it is her and should I try to reach her H and if I do and am wrong what will I look like?
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allthngspsbl
how and why did you separate? Did he ask you too or was he spending all his time with young 'christian' woman??? - what a laugh
I really dont think you need go far to know who the OW is do you. But yes it is better to be absolutely sure before exposing the affair to her husband.
Can you afford a PI to do this or can you hire a car and do it yourself with a camera???
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