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My husband is terribly hurt about the affair that I had and it's been over a month now since he found out, yesterday he just lashed out at me calling me all sorts of names. I love him but just don't know what to do when he reacts like this. He constantly asks me the same questions over and over about the affair. any advise would be appreciated.
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U both need t/b in some strong counseling.
Call Steve H @ MB and setup some phone counseling. If he won't join, you start.
Read His Needs/Her Needs and Surviving an Affair. It will apply to you but let him see his part.
Ask him to read the link in my sig line about the 5 stages of grieving and ask if he is experiencing any of these stages. He can post here and we can help also.
Get started, you have a lot of tools at your disposal but it will take more effort on your part to start.
L.
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