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I want to know an applicable form of plan B for the BS who doesn't have the children with him, and is breaking under the weight of the depression, finacial chaos, and uncertainty I have been left with since my wife left to move in with the OM.
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I don't have an answer for you, but I just wanted to post so you won't feel alone out there. I am sending a prayer for you. My WH is living with OW, 700 miles away.
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Thank you. Mine is 2.5 hrs away.
We were together 11 years, married 8.
No paperwork filed yet.(???)
She met him in November. I found out in March. She left in June.
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Unfortunately I don't have any advice for you either, as I am not in plan B yet....but my heart just sunk when I read that your WS moved in with the other man....I'm so sorry. I don't know what I'd do, my H still lives alone, and although I get occasional positive signs, I think I've got a long row to hoe...not particularly looking forward to it either, but I'm in it for the long haul, divorce is really not an option for me......I can't seem to come to grips with any of it really.
Hope things go well for you,
-Caren
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Hi Robert - you've found a tremendous resource for dealing with your crisis.
But before you can fully use the vast knowledge base present among the forum participants, you'll have to describe in detail your situation, i.e., before we can help you, we have to know about you.
Begin with your marital history, making sure to include your ages, age of children, relationships with in-laws, what you know about the OP (other person) and his situation, etc., etc., etc.
In the meantime read everything you can find on this site about infidelity, particularly Plan A and B. Your initial question indicates you may not have done this yet. Neither Plan A nor B consists of a "menu" you pick and choose from.
Also, read the link in my sig line below and all the embedded links.
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