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Hi I am new here. I tried plan A with my WH, not a very good one, but eventually he chose the OW. The last time I spoke to him was on Christmas Eve. He told me he would be bringing the OW to his parents house for the holidays. Since this conversation I have decided to do plan b. Since our seperation in October he has filed for a divorce and I moved back home to be with my family. Our divorce was finalized on Dec. 29th. What is my next move? I have changed my cell phone # and am no longer living in the same town. I get scared because as they say "Out of sight, Out of mind." I don't want him to forget about me. I decided maybe if I just leave him alone the fog will lift in time. Am I doing the right thing?
Me-27 yrs
WH-25 yrs
Seperated-10/01/04
Divorced-12/29/04
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Don't be scared.
Plan B is the next move, and potentially, the last.
How long were you married?
What made your M vulnerable?
And how can you make a future relationship, with him or someone else, different?
GC
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We were married for 6 yrs. I know what happened to our marriage and I know what needs to be fixed. I am ready to work on myself and things that I need to change. I just hate to think of him moving on and it seems like he has already forgotten me. And I fear there will be no chance for reconciliation.
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