Our MC would like WH and I to communicate better outside of her sessions. We do talk, we do spend some time together but it's always on a superficial level. He says that anything he says, I use against him. True since every word that comes out of his mouth is either damning, skewed or slippery.

MC's suggestion was that we start a book that we write in and pass back and forth. For one thing, written things, while open to interpretation, are pretty much black and white and permenent. WH was suppose to start it but didn't seem to get beyond "started". So, proactive person that I'm, I wrote and sent it via our son yesterday.

Nothing yet. I hope it works.