I finally told my H last night about posting here. He knew I was getting some coaching but not the extent I was spending here. I mentioned RH and A2's offers of helping him through his pain. RIF your sitch as you know is close to mine in some ways. Would you gents be willing to help my H through it if I can get him to post here? I asked him, but he is always very suspicious of WHY I spend time in these places. I gently explained to him that it is support and help in making the changes I need to make that I have gotten here. Anyway, small chance I can bring him here and get to read my posts and maybe post himself.

Thanks!

Of course. Also I am impurebob on AIM or purebob at evomail dot co dot UK if he wants to mail me.

100% happy to help.
Here or by email to mymates2@myway.com whatever he feels confortable with.

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Thanks fellas. I will pass the info on to my H. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

^bumping for RIF^

Mine is posted somewhere ...

inside_hacker@yahoo.com. Yahoo IM is also inside_hacker. I also have minutes w/o limits on my cell's contract <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

-rh-

Hey FF & Mr.FF - You can reach me here, or at rif902000@yahoo.com, or on AIM majkcf63 either way, I'd be glad to share what I've learned along the way...

Semper Fi,
RIF

FF: I'm available too if needed.

RH

<small>[ January 01, 2005, 08:55 PM: Message edited by: Recovering H ]</small>

Thanks everyone. I will pass this info on to my H. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Hey ff...don't know how much help I could be, but count me in too! I think you might already have my email if need be.

Thank you Liny. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by faithful follower:
<strong> I finally told my H last night about posting here. He knew I was getting some coaching but not the extent I was spending here. I mentioned RH and A2's offers of helping him through his pain. RIF your sitch as you know is close to mine in some ways. Would you gents be willing to help my H through it if I can get him to post here? I asked him, but he is always very suspicious of WHY I spend time in these places. I gently explained to him that it is support and help in making the changes I need to make that I have gotten here. Anyway, small chance I can bring him here and get to read my posts and maybe post himself.

Thanks! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Smart girl... telling him your purpose here is to make changes in YOURSELF! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Being open and honest about MB is the only way to go ... My H has read here but never posted. My H's support group is his AA meetings and an inspirational recovery web site .

Pep

Thank you Pep. The most postive thing to come out of this is he is willing to email with some of the men. Not ready for MB yet, but I will encourage him to read my thread. Little by little he is beginning to trust me again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

My favorite XWH is on recovery 2OAK. (2ofakind) He would sometimes email other men needing assistance. I like him because he's got a stellar bullshyt detector and he's also got an extraordinary ability to tell it like it is ... and be very funny at the same time! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Pep