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You mentioned that it's been 12 months of NC - how cool is that??!!
You are a total inspiration! Thanks for all you have done to help me and others on the board!
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Thank you Carol and Pep, now I'm blushing and weepy all at the same time. When I think back it all just seems like a nightmare that happened to other people. Rob accusing me of calling OM on my cellphone and ringing me at work, then him ringing the number and finding it was my voicemail, me leaving my job because OM was a client and there was a distinct possibility he'd turn up, Rob ringing his wife to make sure NO ONE ever contacted anyone again and now look at us <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Roll on, 2005 - you're going to be a great year!!! Jen
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KIWI--Congratulations to you and your husband!!! Thats really cool!!!
Thank you for all the help you gave my husband right after DD!! You were great with all your posts to him!
Thank you for all your help!
You will have a great 2005 and so on!!!
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That's great! My WW/STBXW couldn't last 12 minutes.
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Myrta, thank you. I still laugh at your first ever response to me but I didn't laugh at the time. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
ISBTH, Thanks. BTW I worked out who you were in about 2 seconds so I hope your STBX doesn't really lurk.
I know LM and a few others don't hold with the MB principles and I sometimes wonder if it had been Rob had found his way here and not me and done it all on his own, whether it would have worked so well but he knew how to Plan A instinctively and we now both go out of our way to make each other feel loved and secure.
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Good for you Jen ... Again and Again. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">When I think back it all just seems like a nightmare that happened to other people. Rob accusing me of calling OM on my cellphone and ringing me at work, then him ringing the number and finding it was my voicemail, me leaving my job because OM was a client and there was a distinct possibility he'd turn up, Rob ringing his wife to make sure NO ONE ever contacted anyone again and now look at us </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I imagine that gave you both ulcers. I wish you both the best 2005. It is so great to see how many FWS are on here at MB and the strength they committed to thier families. I guess I'll just live vicariously through them. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Good for you Jen. Gives hope to many others. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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YAY for Jen!!! I for one am proud and happy for you that you have done it.A big feat to overcome and you are a shining example.Keep up the good work! O <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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KIWIJ-- <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Please dont remind me of that!!! I am so embarrass about that. You were so nice, and I was so nasty then!! But that was then, and THIS IS NOW!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
tHANKS FOR BEING A GOOD SPORT!!!
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Myrta, hon, don't worry about it. It WAS funny and you and Stanley are doing very well now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> At least I got you posting!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Jen
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Congrats! I am new to the site and hope that I too can be in your posiiton. Have a wonderful year!
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Kampm, well I've been married a lot longer than you have and have adult children. Should have made me smarter, huh?
You can and you will do this. To prove to your H that you can be trustworthy, you have to be trustworthy, simple as that.
12 months of NC (which is only 12 months into a lifetime of NC) did not come easy but IT WAS WORTH IT.
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Congratulations !
You both have grit,love and smarts. Thats a fine recipe for the future !
{{{jen & Rob}}}
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Always knew you were a gem to your Rob!!!! Great job you wonder woman you... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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